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A new baby is truly a miracle. From the moment you learn of the little one’s existence, you begin to dream and plan. Will she be a doctor? Will he be handsome and intelligent? Parents-to-be spend countless hours dreaming of the baby they will soon meet and discussing the most important thing of all – what should we name our baby?

    This question is equally entertaining and stressful. Fortunately, there are ways to focus on the joy of the situation rather than the anxiousness it might bring. Just remember, your child will be perfect, and your name will be, too.

    #1: The Deeper Meaning

    What is really in a name? We all know the old adage about a rose by any other name, but what does a name really mean? Many baby names are taken from languages that do actually have deeper meanings, and some might not have the exact meaning you are seeking. If you think a name sounds beautiful, but means “the weak one,” you might want to head back to the drawing board.

    By the same token, if you are just starting your search, consider names based on something the baby might represent – without smothering the poor child with your expectations. More than one baby has been given a name symbolizing hope or happiness.

    #2: The Impression

    What impression does the name make on others? If you’re considering giving your son or daughter a name that is tricky to pronounce, you might reconsider. Some parents think it is adorable to match first name and last name. This is usually just confusing to everyone involved.

    In general, long surnames are best paired with shorter first names and vice-versa. Remember, you child is going to have to write out the name on every piece of paper they turn in for the rest of their life. Take pity on them if their last name already contains more than seven letters.

    #3: The Memories

    Maybe a name sounds beautiful until you realize that your husband’s ex-fiance had the same name. It’s a pretty safe bet your husband would feel the same way about your ex-finaces’ names. If a name leaves a bad taste in your mouth, you probably don’t want to taste it every time you speak to your child. Find something more palatable.

    #4: Religion

    Many times religion will have some say in the naming of a child born into that faith. Some religions feel that a child’s name should come from a deceased relative, while others feel strongly about having a name associated with a prophet or saint. Religious aspects are important to consider, but often are easily resolved with a middle name or a bit of creativity.

    #5: Honor

    Should your baby be named in honor of someone else? Perhaps the first son should be named after his father. If this is the case, be sure to give the child a nickname early on as to avoid having two people with the same name living in the same house. Middle names are another common way to honor relatives or parents.

    #6: Initials

    Some parents sort through baby girl names and settle on a wonderful name just to discover that the baby’s initials spell out something undesirable. While this may seem trivial to adults, it can mean a great deal to a child suffering through school with cruel taunting over her initials. On the flip side, some children are given specific initials to continue a family tradition or to honor a relative.

    #7: Nicknames

    Some names lend themselves easily to nicknames. If you think the nickname is desirable, encourage its use early on. If you prefer the child to go by the full name, you and your little one may have an uphill battle against well-meaning strangers. Another area to consider is any nickname that future classmates might dream up based on the way a name sounds. If there is anything remotely funny about a particular name, you can count on eight-year-olds to find it.

    #8: Gender

    Sometimes the lines between gender specific names are blurring. This may or may not be a good thing for your baby. More girls seem to be receiving baby boys names. A boy never wants to be in the same room as a girl with the same name. It is up to the parents to plan ahead as much as possible. Also, even if you know the gender, bring a few extra names to the hospital just in case. Ultrasound “uh-ohs” have definitely happened.

    #9: Spelling

    To break the mold, you might consider a unique spelling of an otherwise traditional name. Of course, there are already many accepted ways to write many baby names, so this will probably not be a problem. Do consider your child in this decision however. If a baby name is spelled so unusually that friends and family have a hard time remembering just how to spell it or even pronounce it correctly, you might have gone too far.

    #10: Easy to Live With

    Most importantly of all, you want to pick a name you and your little one can live with happily. Are you comfortable saying the name out loud? Does it sound right when you yell it out the back door or up the stairs? Is it too reminiscent of anything or anyone you really don’t want associated with your own blessed child?

    Remember, too, that baby names can become a burden to a child if he feels he must live up to extremely high standards. If a child was named for a legend in your country or culture, will she be able to handle the pressure?

    Like pregnancy, selecting the perfect baby name is a unique experience for every parent. Parents with more than one child can tell the tale of wading through the mired mess of baby names each time a new child was on the way. The bottom line is to have an open mind and heart.

    Even with the best planning, a brand new baby can easily catch a parent off guard. Many a parent has first laid eyes on their newborn and declared the child needs a totally different name than the carefully planned one. Enjoy the planning and most especially enjoy the joys of parenthood.

The writer of the following article apologizes to the many young Pakistani mothers for the absence in her article of any of the Urdu names for girls. The writer was seeking to convey a particular point, a fact concerning the Islamic religion. In order to concentrate on that one point, the writer needed to focus on the male names that are used by the Pakistani families.

The list of Urdu names underlines the importance of the Islamic religion among the people of Pakistan. That is especially true, if one focuses on the Urdu names for male children. While a Pakistani family often names a son “Muhammad,” there is one name that such a family will never use.

Yet “next-door,” in Iran, the same name has often been chosen by Iranian parents as the name for a newborn son. At the same time, those Iranian families share with Pakistani families the willingness to name a son “Muhammad.”

What name used in Iran is missing among the Urdu names? Why is there this noticeable difference between Iranian names and Urdu names? Those questions will be answered in the following paragraphs.

A visit to a Pakistani hospital could easily lead to discovery of a male infant named either “Muhammad” or “Omar.” A visit to an Iranian hospital could well lead to discovery of a male infant named “Muhammad” or “Ali.” One would find no mention of “Ali” among a list of Pakistani names, and one would find no mention of “Omar” among a list of Iranian names.

Those facts are due to difference in the religious beliefs between the people of Pakistan and the people of Iran. The people of Pakistan are Sunni Muslims. They accept Omar as the one designated by Muhammad as his successor. The people of Iran feel that Ali was the one appointed by Muhammad to be his successor.

That is why one will have little chance of finding a boy named “Ali” in the home of a Pakistani family. “Ali” has never been considered as one of the many Pakistani names. By the same token, one will have little chance of finding a baby named “Omar” among a group of Iranian babies.

Coincidentally, Urdu names do share some of the same names that one does find in the Bible. That fact underscores the degree to which the Pakistani people do share certain beliefs with the people of other revealed religions.

A group of Pakistani youth might contain one or more boys named “Ismail,” “Esmail” or “Ibrahim.” Those names should sound vaguely familiar to a reader of the Holy Bible. They are taken from the story of the prophet Abraham and his son Ishmael. While those Urdu names are not spelled the same way as the Hebrew names, the family using any of those names has the same respect for that prophet and his son.

Another name often found among a list of Urdu names is one that contains the word “Abdul.” That word means servant, and it is often used as the first half of a boy’s name. Abdul Karim, Abdul Hamid and Abdul Hafeez are all examples of Urdu names.

Being good Muslims, Pakistani families would never name a child “Allah.” They can and do, however, include the word “allah” within some male names. That explains why one can sometimes find a Pakistani boy with a name such as “Zekrrollah” or “Nasrallah.” That same ending would never be added to the name of any Pakistani girl. That too would represent an action that ran counter to the Muslim traditions.

An understanding of Muslim traditions and Muslim beliefs helps anyone who wants to gain an understanding of Pakistani names.